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  • Building a Life: That Feels Like Folklore

    Building a Life: That Feels Like Folklore

    Sometimes, when the world feels heavy and the noise of life grows too loud, I slip into a daydream. Not just any daydream—it’s my heart’s true calling, my wish, my wild and whimsical hope.

    What I really want is to become local folklore.

    Imagine it: a weathered stone cottage perched on a cliff, overlooking the endless blue of the ocean. Salt clings to the air, and wildflowers bloom in every color, weaving around the windows and doorway like nature’s embrace. The waves crash rhythmically against the rocks below, singing a song older than time.

    Barefoot, I step outside, my toes sinking into the cool, golden sand. I greet the morning with a steaming cup of coffee pressed warmly between my hands, the sea breeze tangling my hair and carrying whispers of far-off places. A tide pool glistens nearby, teeming with tiny, magical worlds that mirror the vastness of the ocean itself.

    Candace Rae enjoying a quiet beach morning, her hair tangling in the sea breeze, as she reflects on her whimsical dream of becoming local folklore.

    Inside the cottage, my world is one of magic and wonder. Shelves brimming with books fill my library, their worn spines and yellowed pages holding stories, secrets, and spells. An apothecary lines another room, with jars of sea glass, dried seaweed, and tinctures neatly arranged—each one a tiny universe of healing and enchantment.

    A sunlit conservatory adjoins the cottage, bursting with greenery and blooms. It’s my haven of growth and renewal, a place where the line between land and sea blurs, and miracles feel as natural as the tide.

    Every morning, a beach chicken named Gizmo visits, perching on my windowsill with feathers that shimmer like the light on water. Gizmo, along with a few cheeky pelicans, brings me whispers of the world, secrets carried on the wind and waves. These gifts are sacred treasures, shared between the ocean’s magic and me.

    Candace Rae pouring a steaming cup of coffee, joined by Gizmo

    I am no ordinary woman here; I am a friend of the sea spirits, bound by ancient tides and sacred pacts with the merfolk who guard this stretch of coast. At night, I dance with my lover beneath a sky of infinite stars, the moonlight painting silver trails on the waves. Together, we laugh and spin, wild and free, our joy as eternal as the ocean itself.

    People come to my little sanctuary seeking the peace only the sea can offer. They sit by the water’s edge, letting the crashing waves soothe their restless souls. I open my heart to listen, and they leave lighter, carrying with them a touch of the magic that lives here.

    My life is simple yet profound. It’s a symphony of connection—to the sea, to my family, to the unseen threads of wonder that weave through all things. The ocean is my community, the sun my clock, and the tides my guide. I don’t just live here; I belong here.

    For now, this cottage lives in my heart, on Pinterest boards, and in the small steps I take each day. A new tincture here, another plant there, more stories read and more dreams whispered. My apothecary grows, my heart stays open, and the birds—well, they’re still whispers of hope passed on by my cats and sometimes Gizmo!

    But maybe, just maybe, this dream isn’t so far away. Perhaps one day, as I inch closer to my goals, I’ll wake up to find myself truly living the life I’ve imagined.

    And who knows? Maybe someday, someone will sit by the sea, telling the story of a woman who became the heart of the coast—a tale passed down through generations until I truly become the local folklore I’ve always dreamed of being.

    Candace Rae enjoying a quiet beach morning, her hair tangling in the sea breeze, as she reflects on her whimsical dream of becoming local folklore.

    Much love, Candace.

    All photos featured in this post are taken by Vanessa Mayberry. Please visit her website.

  • From Modeling to Microphones: How a Podcast Changed Everything

    From Modeling to Microphones: How a Podcast Changed Everything

    I still remember the moment like it was yesterday. My husband walked into the room and said, “We’re going to do a podcast.”

    “Who?” I asked, completely thrown off.

    “You and me,” he replied, as if it were the most obvious thing in the world.

    And just like that, Wheeler in the Morning with Dave and Candace Rae was born.

    At the time, we were barely a week out from him losing his job—a career in radio spanning over 20 years gone in an instant. Bills needed to be paid, and he needed to keep doing what he loved, what he was born to do. So, with zero hesitation on his part and a ton of hesitation on mine, we dove in headfirst.

    Those first 18 months were a whirlwind. The show grew, and while its name and format changed in the years to follow, those early days were unlike anything I’d ever experienced.

    Let me tell you, I was terrified.

    Sure, I’d been a guest on shows before, popping in for a quick chat or adding a little fun. But this? Five days a week, every week, in front of an audience that could judge my every word and every stumble? It felt like walking into a lion’s den.

    Sometimes, when the world feels heavy and the noise of life grows too loud, I slip into a daydream. Not just any daydream—it’s my heart’s true calling, my wish, my wild and whimsical hope.
What I really want is to become local folklore.
Imagine it: a weathered stone cottage perched on a cliff, overlooking the endless blue of the ocean. Salt clings to the air, and wildflowers bloom in every color, weaving around the windows and doorway like nature’s embrace. The waves crash rhythmically against the rocks below, singing a song older than time

    You see, I’d spent years as a model. My job was to show up, look polished, and get the job done. Behind the camera, I was confident. But in front of a microphone, spilling my thoughts, sharing my truths? That was something else entirely.

    Social media didn’t help. Instagram was at its peak of perfectly curated feeds and flawless aesthetics. I didn’t know how to be anything other than polished. The idea of showing up imperfectly—pronouncing a word wrong, fumbling over my thoughts—made me feel less than.

    But we did it anyway. Day one turned into day two, then week one, and before I knew it, we’d recorded over 1,000 episodes!!

    That podcast wasn’t just a way to make ends meet; it became a lifeline. The parts of me I wasn’t ready to confront. And in the process, I learned something incredible: people weren’t looking for perfection. They wanted honesty, connection, and realness.

    What I didn’t expect was the community that formed around us. They didn’t just show up for the content; they showed up for us. They supported Dave from the very beginning, and by extension, they supported me too!

    The experience wasn’t easy. Doing a daily podcast with your husband means you’re bound to encounter truths—about him, about yourself, about your relationship. Some days, it was exhilarating; other days, it felt like standing in front of a mirror I wasn’t ready to face.

    If I could go back and tell myself anything, it would be this: Breathe. It’s okay not to be perfect. It’s okay to stumble, to feel vulnerable, to not always have the right words. Showing up isn’t about grace; it’s about courage.

    It was the beginning of a new me.